We all know how difficult it can be to facilitate healthy interactions between children on the autism spectrum and their typically developing peers. The stereotypic “stimming” behaviors that are often present in children with autism, combined with a lack of appropriate social behaviors, tend to alienate other children and reduce the opportunities for peer interaction. Healthy social relationships are critical for early development, so it is extremely important to build some skills in children with autism that will help them relate to and interact with other children.
Teaching basic early childhood games will help create a bridge through which children with autism can relate to their typically developing peers. Games like Bingo and The Memory Game are very popular classroom and home games that kids play. If we break down these games into smaller steps, and teach each step to kids with Autism, then we can eventually string the steps together until they have all the skills to play the game.
Take Bingo for example. Bingo is really just a “receptive labeling” activity. The caller says the word; then, the player looks at their card to find the picture, and puts a marker on the picture. If you spend some time teaching these skills separately, then chain them together, your child will have all of the steps necessary to play bingo. Then you can bring in a sibling or peer to play along.
This basic game-playing skill is a great way to start to building healthier peer interactions.
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maria My son is 4 and our
maria
My son is 4 and our biggest challenge is getting him out of the "stim" behaviors and into more interaction with peers.
I like the suggestion of teaching basic games, which we have done. Hide and seek is a good game for him.
The problem with other games is the "turn taking" or "sharing" with others - its tough to get him to participate in a group activity or game and understand the dynamic of taking turns....its a little beyond him right now.
maybe this is a maturity issue
the taking turns dynamic is
the taking turns dynamic is very difficult. You may want to practice that behavior all by itseslf (totally outside of the game concept). Start with a very simple behavior like putting a block in a bucket in response to a command like "your turn," then you do it in response to "my turn," then another peer or sibling in response to "jonny's turn," etc. You could mix up the order until he really got it. Then increase the complexity of the task slowly, until it could be a step in a game.
Of course, you are right, some of it could also be a maturity issue. But I think his age works in your advantage. There are probably a lot of 4 year olds out there who havent mastered the behavior of taking turns! You can get started early.
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My son hates board games. He likes cards and we have been teaching him some card games. He does surprisingly well with taking turns.
I have had a lot of parents
I have had a lot of parents and therapist say they have had success with our memory card decks. The cards do seem to be popular. I wonder why they would be preferred to board games... more concrete maybe?
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